Marjorie, age 68

I was diagnosed with metastatic ovarian cancer in November, 2000. Overall I felt great at the time, but I had noticed some abdominal bloating. After reading Ann Landers’ column about how bloating can be a symptom of ovarian cancer, and after some insomnia, I decided to mention it to my gynecologist at Park Nicollet just to set my mind at rest.

I still remember receiving the call with the diagnosis … it was the night election results were on TV. I had a plate of Vietnamese takeout in front of me, and my gynecologist asked, “Are you sitting down?” When he said cancer was causing the bloating, I felt like the rug had been pulled out from under me.

I had surgery the following Monday, with ongoing treatments. The cancer went into remission for two years. My oncologist, Joseph Leach, MD, has helped me stay one step ahead of the cancer. Every time the cancer became resistant to one chemo drug, we moved on to another.

I initially felt betrayed by my body after I had taken such great care of it through diet and exercise. The loss of control really bothered me.

I’ve already exceeded the typical survival stats for recurrent ovarian cancer. I haven’t let cancer slow me down very much. I still make time for my grandchildren, gardening and biking. I work part-time as a statistician and bike everywhere (weather permitting) … including to work and Frauenshuh Cancer Center.

I advise other people diagnosed with cancer to stay as active as they can. Use your hands, whether it is gardening or another activity.

I’ve really enjoyed my interactions with the people at Frauenshuh Cancer Center. In addition to Joseph Leach, MD, I’ve come to enjoy my conversations with Helen Berg at the front desk, and the entire nursing staff. I’m also fond of the face-to-face interactions and chit-chat with other patients.

I’m looking forward to experiencing the healing garden at the new cancer center, and watching it take shape. 

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